The Dangers of Facebook Oversharing

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How much is too much information when it comes to sharing on Facebook? Oversharing can become a personal safety risk. Some people—thieves, lawyers, and stalkers—like oversharing. Others, such as employers, don't. Here are some of the dangers you need to be aware of before making your next Facebook post.

An unknown stalker reading Facebook profiles

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Stalkers Love Oversharing

Your Facebook timeline is like a scrapbook for stalkers. The timeline provides an easy interface where your friends and—depending on your privacy settings—anyone else in the world gets quick access to all the things you've posted on Facebook. It also provides access to your profile and your personal information, which potentially includes your workplace, current city, relationship status, and phone number. Nearly every aspect of your life is potentially on display for stalkers.

It's best to limit sharing your location on Facebook as much as possible or not to share it at all. Use the Facebook privacy settings to close down the public's ability to see your timeline and profile information. Use Facebook friends lists to organize your contacts on the social network. Create a list of your most trusted friends and set your privacy settings to give them more access. Limit access to acquaintances who might end up being stalkers.

Thieves Love Oversharing

The easiest way to make yourself a target for thieves is to share your location information on Facebook. When you check-in at the local gym, any thief who's trolling Facebook profiles learns you're not at home and that it's a great time to rob you.

You may have restricted your privacy settings on Facebook to only friends. However, what if a friend is logged in to a publicly accessible computer, such as at a library, and forgets to log out or has their cellphone stolen? You can't guarantee that your friends are the only ones who have access to your status and location because your privacy settings are set to friends only.

Some Facebook apps that share your location may have more relaxed privacy settings than you're comfortable with, and they might reveal your location without you realizing it. Check your privacy settings and check to see what information your Facebook apps share with your friends and the rest of the world. Limit them as much as possible to protect your privacy and personal safety. Never post that you're home alone.

Lawyers Love Oversharing

Anything a lawyer learns about you on Facebook can and may be used against you in a court of law. Lawyers love Facebook because it helps establish a person's character and where and when something took place. Facebook does a lot of legwork that a private investigator normally has to do, such as learning who a person associates with.

If you're in the middle of a custody battle, posting pictures on Facebook of yourself getting tanked at a party could help your ex-spouse win the case against you. Facebook postings often reflect our moods. A ranting status post might cause you to be labeled as aggressive or abusive by a lawyer who's making a case against you.

If you're tagged in a picture that might be considered inappropriate, untag yourself so that the picture isn't associated with your profile. Even if you remove a post after it appears, it might have been caught in a screenshot or sent in an email notification. There are no guaranteed takebacks on Facebook, so always think before you post.

Employers Hate Oversharing

Your employer may not be a fan of oversharing. Whether you're at work or not, your actions can affect your company's image, especially since most people put where they work on their Facebook profile.

If you make negative comments about your employer or share privileged information, you can harm the company. If your employer reviews Facebook activity and sees you make posts while you're supposed to be working, this information could be used against you. If you call in sick and then your Facebook location says you're checking in at a movie theater, your employer can figure out that you're playing hooky.

Potential employers might request a look at your Facebook profile to learn more about you. Consider reviewing your Timeline to see if anything might cause them to not hire you before you give permission.

Worried about your friends posting something stupid on your wall or tagging you in an unflattering picture that might affect a potential job offer? Turn on the Tag Review and Post Review features so you can decide what's posted about you before it goes live.

There are some things you should never post on Facebook. Use your best judgment and take responsibility for what you post about yourself and others.

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